There has to be a better idea than the way it is now.

Well, Halloween has passed for another year. I was thinking about the evolution of the event for me. When I was a kid, it was a safer time. You didn't have to worry about tainted or dangerous candy. Kids went out without parents [not totally alone...my brothers accompanied me] and the costumes were generated at home. We had a little old lady costume that I think all three of us wore [in different years]. It was a great costume! Gee, we were ahead of the recycling era!!!

For me, being an elementary teacher, I dressed up every year with the kids. I remember some parties that were a lot of fun. One in particular was in 3rd grade where the kids bobbed for apples and it sure was an eye opener for me. I must have never done it as a kid, because when the first kid's entire face disappeared into the bucket...I was shocked!!
Another time in 5th grade, we played real Bingo with real prizes while singing, "Do wa diddy diddy ...and doing the wave. That was a fun party.
As time went on over 33 years, the costumes were often store bought and/or of a violent, dark, or bloody nature. The main office began to ban things like plastic [or any kind of ]swords, knives, aerosol hair spray[!]. Parents would be coming in to apply make up for the kids. Then, they would eat candy, and be on a sugar high for days. [the kids, not the parents!]
Then there was the parent part of a Halloween. My favorite costume that my son wore at age 3 was when he was a fire truck. We got a big box, covered it with red paper, made ladders out of shiny aluminum foil, installed headlights and a steering wheel, a bigger black ladder on the side, and he wore a fireman's helmet. Very, very cool.
Now I am retired, and my son is a man, and so Halloween has slipped into history for me. It is fun seeing little kids dressed up, and I do buy candy. Since I live on a dead end street, I don't really get trick or treaters, and so I wind up eating the candy. Oh well, it's a tough job- but somebody's got to do it!! Umm-m Three Musketeers. The silver lining to the cloud. Boo!!!Hoo.
Labels: laughter, reflecting, teaching


6 Comments:
This was such a fun historical post to read, Mare. Loved it. It's true. I saw the same thing in Illinois as well. I'm still trying to figure out who I will give my left over candy to.
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Kay, At
November 1, 2008 at 2:39 PM
interesting post of the evolution of halloween...eating candy is not a reward...I remember trying to give bags of popcorn and apples one year but the kids weren't interested...
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Great Grandma Lin, At
November 1, 2008 at 5:25 PM
Years and forever ago...Radio Shack used to sell little dime sized magnets for a penny a piece. We used to buy all they had and put ten of them in a bag to pass out to trick or treaters. They LOVED them. We also used to order the little toys that they hand out in dental offices from Oriental Trading to give to the goblins and ballerina's at our door. The kids seemed to like them as well!
I don't like the bloody, creepy, downright ugly costumes. I also don't like the greedy 17 year olds with hands the size of baseball mitts grabbing at the candy bowl.
As I said somewhere on somebody's post, we don't get any little munchkins visiting our home at the Hollow... but, we had a GREAT time delivering candy to our neighbors last night. It was a hoot!!!
I do miss the good old days when life was less fearful... but, I still enjoy watching the little ones at Halloween.
One thing we did when my kids were young... I made Halloween pillowcases. We put them on the beds the first of October and would count down every day till we did Witchalene, then she'd take us onto Halloween night. The first day of November, we took the pillowcases off. I'd put them back on every few nights for ONE night.. then we'd get everyone's trick or treat bag out and we could all indulge ourselves in three pieces. Sommetimes, I'd just put the special case on one child's pillow... then he/she would get just their bag down and we'd all get to pick one piece from their loot. They all took turns sharing from their bags. It seemed to slow down the consumption and it taught the kids about sharing something that they didn't really want to share... and it kept the fun of the holiday going a little longer.
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wispy willow, At
November 1, 2008 at 7:07 PM
You're right Mare..it was fun when I was first teaching, but then the costumes weren't allowed anymore. I have left over candy too...oh noooo
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RamblingWoods2.com, At
November 1, 2008 at 11:21 PM
i know just what you mean...now that we love on Lake Road, St Rt 6...we get no kids but the ones I beg to come (mostly my piano students). So I just buy a huge bag of Hersheys...so I know I will have plenty left to eat myself. I love the homemade costumes best,,,even now. And reward generously for outstanding effort...lots more candy thrown in.
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Susan, At
November 2, 2008 at 8:45 AM
When I was little, a neighbor lady always invited us in for cocoa. We also got popcorn in little paper sacks or popcorn balls in plastic wrap. Candy bars were very rare back then.
Oh how things change. Trying to give a small toy to trick or treaters now would likely be treated with eye rolling.
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Jo, a retired teacher, At
November 2, 2008 at 5:25 PM
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