Compassion
Friday is my day to volunteer at the hospital for a couple of hours. People who are there for one day surgery sign in and I call the nurses' station to announce that their next patient is there.
One of the reasons that I enjoy the waiting room is that I run into people and former students from years passed. That was the case today.
I asked a friendly looking young man if he would please get the top/lid off of my bottle of Snapple. [I have a hard time with that, and I didn't want to pound it on the desk to 'pop the seal' the way I do at home.] When I looked at his face, I realized that it was a familiar one...a former student.
While he was easy to recall and a wonderful young man as a student, it was his sister who left a profound and lasting impression.on me. A great kid and a pleasure to teach, she was obviously a very compassionate person even at the age of ten.
She quietly raised her hand in the middle of a lesson and said,
"Please excuse my interruption, but there is a moth caught in a spider web right outside the window, and it is very stressed. Could I please just let it go so that it won't die trying to get free?"
Well, of course!
She hopped up on the window shelf and her good friend held her waist while I held her feet as she freed that struggling moth/butterfly.
Whew! What a simple yet grand gesture to another living creature!
So as her brother left, I asked him to say hello to his sister for me, and ask her if she remembers rescuing a moth from a spider's web in 5th grade.
'Cause I sure do!!
One of the reasons that I enjoy the waiting room is that I run into people and former students from years passed. That was the case today.I asked a friendly looking young man if he would please get the top/lid off of my bottle of Snapple. [I have a hard time with that, and I didn't want to pound it on the desk to 'pop the seal' the way I do at home.] When I looked at his face, I realized that it was a familiar one...a former student.
While he was easy to recall and a wonderful young man as a student, it was his sister who left a profound and lasting impression.on me. A great kid and a pleasure to teach, she was obviously a very compassionate person even at the age of ten.
She quietly raised her hand in the middle of a lesson and said,
"Please excuse my interruption, but there is a moth caught in a spider web right outside the window, and it is very stressed. Could I please just let it go so that it won't die trying to get free?"
Well, of course!
She hopped up on the window shelf and her good friend held her waist while I held her feet as she freed that struggling moth/butterfly.Whew! What a simple yet grand gesture to another living creature!
So as her brother left, I asked him to say hello to his sister for me, and ask her if she remembers rescuing a moth from a spider's web in 5th grade.
'Cause I sure do!!
Labels: life, RAK[random acts of kindness], teaching, volunteering


9 Comments:
It's funny how some kids stay in your memory more strongly than others. I have a terrible memory for names. When I was in Illinois this last time going to a pre-school fund raiser for my granddaughter, a beautiful young woman stopped me saying, "Oh my gosh, Mrs. K.!"
Incredibly, I remembered her name. Phew! I could envision her as a tall 6 year old.
I can well understand why that student stayed with you. She was obviously a beautiful soul. Teaching children like that are a particular honor.
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Kay, At
November 18, 2011 at 9:37 PM
That is really compassionate, what a lovely kid!
Mare I use a jar opener similar to this http://www.cleverbrand.com/portal.aspx?CN=33C4ACD9A2B1&MN=EA6024C5D305 It is amazing and simple, just turn with this square of non slip material between your hand and the bottle or jar.
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Christine, At
November 18, 2011 at 10:06 PM
I love this story. As a teacher, I also remember some of those special moments in the classroom. It is a bonus when the student also remembers.
I recently ran into a student while I was shopping. I didn't recognize him at all. They have a way of growing up. It was nice that he recalled the times we had in the classroom and spoke to me.
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Sally Wessely, At
November 18, 2011 at 11:46 PM
Reminds me of a friend's daughter, who was studying to be a veterinarian. She saw a spider in her dorm, and rather than slap it with a shoe, she scooped it up in her hands and released it outside.
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Anonymous, At
November 19, 2011 at 10:32 AM
Tom and I both encounter former students now and then. Some are so very memorable, and others not so much. I usually have to say "OK, I know that face. Help me. Who are you?"
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Linda Reeder, At
November 19, 2011 at 10:44 PM
what a sweet story. reminds me of my hubby who so carefully caught the mouse in our house and released it outside. It hasn't returned...yet! lol...
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Great Grandma Lin, At
November 19, 2011 at 11:02 PM
I agree..some kids stay strongly in the memory..I run into the occasional student not as much as my husband does and some of mine were very low functioning so I am not surprised that I don't see them more. I did run into one when we were both having day surgery at Buffalo General..that was strange...
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RamblingWoods2.com, At
November 19, 2011 at 11:17 PM
Another great story, should be in book form. You are the best.
Former MOW
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Anonymous, At
November 20, 2011 at 6:05 AM
Excellent memory!!!
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Kay Dennison, At
November 20, 2011 at 9:13 PM
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