Beware of 'The Distraction'.
Yesterday morning, I had an instinct that Mom's altered states were on the way. Awake at 7 AM with eyes wide open...and sleep no longer an option for a very long time. Well, it's 7 AM again, and there were a whole lot of hall'Lucy"nations going on during the very long night. There were no naps or nodding off during the day. As we left the living room for bed [that night], she saw a man standing outside the window. Then when it was 'lights out', it became, "Who are all these people?"And evidently she was babysitting a party of drinking women on the third floor, and it evolved to the husbands and dogs arriving there too. and Flo was afraid of getting in trouble...???
"Are your eyes open, Mom?"
"Yes."
"Well close those peepers and you won't see them!"
"Ok..."
Have I ever mentioned my theory on 'The Distraction'? When you are having difficulties of any kind...whether it involves the mind...body...spirit...emotions...life...
Never ask the question:
What else could happen? or make the statement that 'Things can not get any worse!
There have been many occasions where I was already battling something that I thought was stressful enough...when along came something else that demanded front and center stage! And that is the distraction...
Quite often, the distraction is more stressful than the original scenario.
Having explained this...

I would like to thank the Good Lord for the thunder and lightening storm in the middle of the night...in October...while ALL eyes were wide open...in a room full of strangers.
Haha...very funny! NOT!
Because I then had the dog glued to my side or wanting to hang out in my armpit due to the storm.
Well, I'm reeling Lord...but I'm still standing!!
[That's a quote from my life in 1984....but that's another story...for another time.]
Labels: commentary, Flo, life


7 Comments:
I love your stories, they are fascinating. Do tell us more.
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Great Grandma Lin, At
October 7, 2009 at 11:13 AM
Hope things are back to reasonably "normal". It's a stay-in and bundle up day. Sometimes music can be soothing -ie. Music therapy. Could use some now myself.
R.
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Anonymous, At
October 7, 2009 at 1:29 PM
I hear what you are saying, keep your chin up and then there well be room for the dog under your arm and the pretty kitty under your chin. Love to see you anytime.
MOW
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Anonymous, At
October 7, 2009 at 4:56 PM
Mare;
When things get rough, we can always sing!
I'm with you, I whenever I think that things can't get any worse, they do. So I tend not to go down that thought process!
Hope things settle down a bit for you friend.
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Peggy, At
October 7, 2009 at 5:34 PM
I love the way you make these difficult situations sound funny. Funny to us, but not to you, I'm sure. It's so hard to watch your mom change like that. Hang in there.
By
Janie B, At
October 7, 2009 at 5:57 PM
You do have such a way of taking the challenging and putting some humor into it..I don't know how you do it Mare..I guess with love and humor.. Michelle
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RamblingWoods2.com, At
October 7, 2009 at 11:07 PM
I really love the way you do everything with love and humor no matter how challenging it is. Being a caregiver is so difficult. I hope you're being careful to get some breaks for yourself, too.
By
Kay, At
October 8, 2009 at 3:39 AM
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